Am i gay if i watch gay porn

There are different levels of sexuality and there is the potential for bisexuality or wanting to push the boundaries to explore your desires, which can allow you to better determine your sexual orientation.

On my second session, I was about to start up again, retelling what I shared the first time, when my therapist cut me off.

Ask yourself if you have more of an attraction to men or women. Now, over a decade since coming out as bisexual, I’m granting you permission to be bisexual. Please help me out.

— Confused

Dear Confused,

Your question hit me like a bag of bricks, giving me déjà vu.

Are you gay if you enjoy watching gay porn? People are interested in it because it is something new and this newness and variety can be hot! I can start with a straight porn, move on to trans porn, and finish with gay porn.

In real life, I can be staring at a beautiful lady and find her sexually attractive.

If you still don’t know the exact answer or you are still questioning, it may be a good idea to do some self-exploration if you are single or in an open relationship.

The next moment, a muscular dude's dick print would get me so horny I would want to jerk off with him.

Honestly, I feel like I don't know myself or what I want sexually. That is why people search the internet for all different types of porn – they are looking for different things to help stimulate themselves. Is that okay?”

”Yes,” I replied cautiously.

“When we say the word ‘confused’ in the context of questioning sexuality, it means something rather specific and does not describe your attractions.

That’s what it is for them, just fantasy. If the thought of actually going out and truly putting yourself in a position of being intimate with a man is too stressful or uncomfortable, then you can stop at enjoying those fantasies and gay porn.

It depends on each person!