Anal gay sex positions

I would also recommend this only if the bottom has a flexible back. It just means you went too quickly and need more lube and/or foreplay. Doctors have seen everything, and an anal sex injury is nothing to them.

What about numbing lube?

You might see lubes or sprays that claim to make bottoming easier.

However, if you can master this position, it not only looks hot, but also creates new and exciting sensations because of angles that couples usually don’t experience.

PROS/CONS

• This one can be dangerous for both the top and the bottom. If standing freely doesn’t feel comfortable, the top or the bottom can lean up against something sturdy (like a wall or window).

  Your body is one big highway of connected nerves and tissue, if you hit the right note deep inside of the butt, the pleasure will reverberate throughout the rest of your body.

  In men, depending on the position, anal sex will stimulate the prostate, leading to waves of full-body orgasms that dwarf your standard male climax. Enter, Freddie!

  You can never have enough lube when you’re exploring anal pleasure.

  

  Unlike the vagina, the anus is not naturally lubricating and so requires a lot of lube for safe and comfortable penetration.

  Once you feel ready to give it a go, the only thing left is to find out which anal sex position is going to feel the best, and the only way to figure that out...

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  Lube

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  When it comes to lube for anal sex, more is more.

  The receiving partner gets on all fours while the giving partner kneels down behind them. Not to mention, this will allow kissing and more body touching. When the bottom leans back, the penetration angle can be intense, especially if the natural curvature of the top’s penis is up, which will be a direct hit for the prostate.

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  Am I a bottom?

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  When it comes to queer life, there are two rites of passage: coming out, and asking yourself “am I a top or a bottom”? It’s a signal from your body to slow down, use more lube or stop altogether. But if done correctly, the effort will pay off.
  
  In general, start small before slowly progressing in size.

  Don’t be embarrassed – just tell them exactly what happened. It’s the most adventurous in my opinion and may be challenging for some so be careful. Fibre, anal training and techniques like douching can all play a part. If you don't need all the control and you want your partner to thrust back into you, you can always place your hands on your hips and let them do the work for you.

  This position is great if the receiver is already pretty comfortable with anal sex, and doesn’t mind handing the giver the steering wheel.

  
  
  Pain is useful.