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Red represents life, orange is for healing, yellow for sunlight, green for nature, blue for harmony and purple for spirit. “Lavender boy” was also a term used for gay men in the 1920s, and lesbian feminist Rita Mae Brown and other activists disrupted a women’s event wearing T-shirts that read “Lavender Menace,” in 1970.

Because roses are a symbol of mourning, and transgender people are murdered at disproportionate rates, the phrase “give us our roses while we are still here” has been adopted by the trans community to celebrate the beauty of life through flowers.

The 1926 play The Captive, which chronicled the tale of a woman in love with another woman but trapped in a false engagement with a man, featured the exchange of violets as a symbol of love.

The play was popular amongst the queer community in New York, with many women in the audience wearing violets on their person in a show of solidarity.

Pansies

It seems quite fitting that another flower intrinsically linked with LGBTQ+ history began life as a violet.

The garden pansy is a cultivar of several different violet species, including Viola tricolor.

Giving someone a bouquet of flowers could convey all sorts of meanings depending on the specific flowers chosen, from love and devotion to remembrance and forgiveness.

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Love Hands by June Jung, Vancouver 2022

Love Hands by June Jung, Vancouver 2022

Sylvester floral mannequin created by Bellevue Floral Co., San Francisco 2023

Sylvester floral mannequin created by Bellevue Floral Co., San Francisco 2023

Deni Todorovic floral mannequin created by Paper Daisy Studio, Sydney 2023

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Flower power and LGBT+ history

Throughout time, it’s easy to trace how flowers have taken on symbolic meaning for different cultures, religions and social groups.

The ancient Greeks associated roses with Aphrodite, the goddess of love, while the ancient Egyptians believed that the lotus represented rebirth and creation. 

The Victorians were particularly prolific with the meanings they assigned to flowers, developing an entire language – ‘floriography’ – which they used to communicate with each other.

Ancient Greek poet Sappho, who hailed from the island of Lesbos (the root word of lesbian,) wrote of women and girls frolicking together with garlands of violets in their hair; ever since violets have been associated with female lovers. And the world-famous Little Sister’s Book Store and Art Emporium still exists today, now on Davie Street, after surviving several attempted bombings and challenging Canada Customs in the Supreme Court for its right to import so-called “obscene materials” from the U.S.

So many milestones achieved, and so many yet to come.

Fleurs de Villes has celebrated Pride across the world: from San Francisco, to Sydney, Australia for World Pride, and of course in our home town of Vancouver, Canada.

Deni Todorovic floral mannequin created by Paper Daisy Studio, Sydney 2023

Deni Todorovic floral mannequin created by Paper Daisy Studio, Sydney 2023

In the late 1970s, a rainbow flag created by artist Gilbert Baker made its debut at the San Francisco event to symbolize Gay Pride and has since become an iconic symbol.

The language of flowers, or floriography, was the Victorian trend of applying meanings to certain flowers to reflect specific emotions or sentiments, allowing subtle messages to be communicated through carefully-curated bouquets. Towards the end of the 19th century, writers and poets came to celebrate Sappho as a predecessor of lesbian artists, with the violet as a lesbian symbol. 

In the early part of the 20th century, lesbians in Paris who studied and celebrated the works of Sappho wore violets on their clothes.

Famously, Oscar Wilde asked his fellow gay friends to wear a green carnation in their lapels in proud solidarity at the premiere of his play, Lady Windermere’s Fan, in 1892. Even Hollywood saw a brief swell in casting of flamboyantly, if not openly, gay actors, such as drag artist Jean Malin.

As the 1930s and prohibition ended, police cracked down on queer friendly clubs, and the Hays Code brought an end to any overtly gay characters being portrayed on screen.

While pansy was once used as a pejorative, it is slowly being reclaimed by some in the gay community as a term of endearment.

Artist Paul Harfleet plants pansies at sites where homophobic and transphobic violence has occurred in London and across the world in an art piece called The Pansy Project.

Lavender

Violets are not the only purple flower linked to the queer community. 

Into the 1930s and 40s, lavender became increasingly associated with gay men and lesbian women. 

After the communist Red Scare in the 1940s and 50s, the USA went through a similar but lesser-known period of history called the Lavender Scare, where homosexual people throughout American society were ousted from government jobs due to their perceived communist sympathies.

As a result, the colour lavender became a symbol of empowerment within the LGBTQ+ community.

In 1969, the president of the National Organization for Women claimed lesbian membership of the group was a ’Lavender Menace‘, and would threaten the progress of the feminist movement.

Throughout the 1970s and 80s, subsequent to the Stonewall Riots and the advent of gay liberation, pink slowly rose to become the defacto colour for gay pride.

Most of the Royal Parks have two displays each year - in spring and summer - with the colour and greenery in the flower beds being designed a year in advance.

From Ancient Greece to the roaring twenties in New York to modern day Vancouver, flowers have been important to the LGBTQ2+ communities, with special meanings and symbolism.

Vancouver’s first official pride parade was in 1981, in Nelson Park, a tradition that still takes place today.

Vancouver’s pride community really took hold in the 1970s and 80s, when there were 12 gay bars in the West End alone. Lavender roses in particular are often sent on Valentine’s Day and used for gay weddings.

But there are many who still wear lavender colours as a symbol of remembrance and resistance.

Roses

Roses are synonymous with love and romance all over the world.

But in Japan, roses became a symbol for gay men in the 1960s.

Previously a more pejorative word, the rose was reclaimed in 1961, with the publication of ‘Bara Kei’ (Killed by Roses), a collection of photos of gay writer Yukio Mishima by photographer Eikoh Hosoe. 

This inspired the creation of Asia’s first commercially produced gay magazine, ‘Barazoku’ (Rose Tribe), which helped popularise the term ‘bara’ for gay men, and cemented the symbology of the rose in the gay community.

While the term bara is now used less in Japan, the rose is still seen as an icon of gay men in Japan.

Roses are also used as a symbol by the trans community, especially with regards to Trans Day of Remembrance. 

The phrase “give us our roses while we’re still here” is used as a reminder that while it is good to remember those lost to violence, it is better for us all to make efforts to make the world a safer place for the trans community.

The language of flowers

These are just a few of the flowers that have been adopted as symbols by the queer community, but it’s not exhaustive. 

There’s many other plant symbols; like the green carnation popularised by Oscar Wilde and a novel inspired by him, and the lily which became a lesbian counterpart to the rose in the pages of Barazoku.

Today, flowers are commonly seen as a part of vibrant Pride displays, serving as a reminder of their history as symbols of solidarity, resistance and empowerment. 

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Celebrating diversity in art, plants and fungi.

Yaletown was also home to two of the most famous gay bars, The Gandy Dancer on Hamilton Street and The Quadra, located at 1055 Homer Street on top of a postal sorting station. (See it recreated by our in-house Fleuriste June Jung in Downtown Vancouver, in larger-than-life floral 'Love Hands'). Some even had negative connotations – yellow carnations, for example, represented rejection and disappointment.

Across the Royal Parks you'll find many different flower colours, with our talented team growing half a million plants each year in the Hyde Park super nursery.

The trend was also taken up by Parisian men.

“Daisy,” “buttercup,” and especially “pansy,” as well as “horticultural lad” were early twentieth century terms for flamboyant gay men, and were used in the era known as the “pansy craze” in New York, when gay bars and drag queens were starting to emerge in the 1920s. Depending on the translation, wreaths, garlands or diadems of violets being placed on the ’slender neck‘ of a girl.

Sappho’s passionate writing on the delicate beauty of woman led to both her name and her nationality becoming intrinsically linked to women who love women, ‘sapphic’ and ‘lesbian’ respectively.